🏡 How to organise your wardrobe in 5 simple steps

Mornings when you're a mum can feel so rushed - you're finding someone's missing shoe, packing all the lunches, getting the kids ready, all while trying to get yourself dressed.. honestly most days just finding a clean, dry outfit for yourself can be a mission!

An organised wardrobe won't fix everything, but it will give you one less thing to think about. When everything is where it's meant to be and it's easy to grab clothes that look & feel good, you can be ready in minutes and feel much calmer & put together - and for me that has a flow on effect for the rest of the day.

It helps in the long term too - you can see what you own, so you don't accidentally by doubles of anything. You can say yes to a last-minute coffee invite without stressing about having nothing to wear. Your bedroom becomes a calm space to relax in, rather than a place with piles of clothes thrown about, waiting to be put away again.

An organised wardrobe means less overwhelm and reduces your mental load, and getting it organised doesn't have to be a huge job. You're not looking to create a Pinterest perfect wardrobe, you're just making your everyday life easier by setting up in a way that helps you flow through the "getting ready" party of your day.

Here's how to do it in five simple steps:
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​Step 1. Choose a section.

We're not doing one massive job that takes all day. We're doing one small section at at time, whenever we have 15 minutes available. Step by step, getting more organised over time so it's not another big thing on your to do list.

Step 2. Empty the section,

I like to take everything out and dump it all (gently) on the bed so I can see everything at a glance.

Step 3. Sort into four piles.

Keep, donate, sell, bin. Keep what works for you now, what you've worn or used in the last 12 months, and what makes you feel good whenever you wear it, use it or look at it.

Step 4. Give everything a proper home, grouping like items together.

This will be different depending on your wardrobe set up. A few examples from my wardrobe:

• For clothes, I have one short hanging space and one large one. In the short space I keep tops and shorts and I group them by colour. In the long space I keep pants, skirts, dresses, coats & robes, and I group them by type (jeans together, dresses together, etc).
• Jewellery goes into one of two spots - things I wear every day go into a little trinket dish so I can grab them and put them away quickly & easily. Other jewellery lives in my stacked jewellery organiser and I just open it for special occasions.
• Shoes are in a separate shoe cabinet like this one so I don't worry about getting dirt on my clothes or wardrobe floor.

I have space for all seasons in my wardrobe at the same time, but if you don't, pack your out of season clothes into packing cubes and put them in your suitcase so they don't clog up your space - it makes it so much easier to find clothes you want to wear fast and put them away again quickly.

Step 5. Set a few simple rule to manage it going forward.

My favourites are:

• One in, one out - if I buy something new, something gets donated.
• I keep a donation bag in the wardrobe, pop things straight in as I decide to donate them, and when it's full it goes into the boot of my car, ready for drop off when I drive past a donation bin (although this is changing as I've just discovered WhatNot).
• Whenever I'm putting clean washing away, I take a look inside, throw out any rubbish that found it's way in there (sometimes I stash chocolate wrappers, what can I say?) and give it a quick tidy up if needed.

These simple steps make it much smoother to get ready in the morning, I can see all of my items clearly and it means deciding what to wear is much easier. I feel more put together, I don't have piles of clothes around the room, I always find something nice to wear, and my bedroom feels like a calm haven, not a mess to deal with.

My kids are teens now so I have time to do these steps uninterrupted - if your kids are still young and by your side as you do this, I few a few hacks you can try (they worked for me when mine were little):

• Give them a job - putting empty hangers into piles, matching socks into pairs, etc
• Give them a couple of things to "dress up in" while you work - hats, scarves, a handbag, etc
• Set up a "busy basket" with a couple of toys, books, activities they can do by your side as you organise

And that's it! I keep it pretty simple.

If you're organising your wardrobe soon, let me know how you go with it!

x Marissa

Marissa Roberts

Organising tips to make life easier for busy mothers

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🏡 A messy house doesn't make you a bad mum

I want to talk about something we don't say out loud enough.

The guilt that creeps in when the house is messy. When someone drops by unexpectedly and you find yourself apologising before they've even crossed the threshold. When you look around and feel like the state of your home is somehow a reflection of the kind of mother you are.

I've felt it. I know so many women who have.

And I want to say this as clearly as I can: a messy home is not a reflection of your worth as a mother.

Your kids are not going to remember whether the floors were clean. They're going to remember whether you were present. Whether they felt safe. Whether home felt warm and easy to be in.

The mothers I admire most aren't the ones with the tidiest houses. They're the ones who are kind and steady and fun to be around. Whose kids feel loved and seen and like they matter more than the laundry does.

Now, I still believe in the value of an organised home. I've seen what a calmer space does for a family's mood and rhythm. So I'm not saying it doesn't matter at all.

I'm saying it matters far less than the guilt would have you believe.

💗 You are doing so much more than you give yourself credit for.

x Marissa

Marissa Roberts

Organising tips to make life easier for busy mothers

​www.beautifullyorganised.com​

🏡 The Sunday hour that changes everything

I used to dread Sunday evenings.

That low-grade anxiety as the weekend wound down and the week ahead loomed. The feeling of not being ready. Of already being behind before Monday had even started.

The thing that changed it wasn't doing more. It was doing a little of the right things, at the right time.

Here's the Sunday prep routine that made my weeks feel genuinely manageable:

→ Menu plan for the week. Even a rough one. Just knowing what's for dinner each night removes so much daily decision fatigue.

→ A grocery order or shop to match. No mid-week scrambles, no 5pm panic about what to cook.

→ Look at the week's calendar together as a family. Who needs to be where, when. What's coming up that needs prep.

→ Prep one or two things for the week ahead - a batch of snacks, lunches prepped for the first couple of days, a pot of something easy for a busy night.

→ Set your own intention for the week. One thing you want to feel, or one thing you want to make happen.

The whole routine takes me about an hour, sometimes less. But it means I start the week feeling like I'm in it, not behind it

💗 What would you add to your Sunday prep if you had one?

x Marissa

Marissa Roberts

Organising tips to make life easier for busy mothers

​www.beautifullyorganised.com

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🏡 Calm mornings start the night before

If mornings in your house are a bit chaotic, I have a question for you.

What happens the night before?

In my experience, calm mornings aren't created in the morning. They're created the night before, in about 20 minutes, when everyone is fed and the pressure is off.

Here's the evening habit that changed our mornings completely:

→ Bags packed and by the door before anyone goes to bed.

→ Tomorrow's outfits decided (and ideally laid out) the night before - for the kids and for me.

→ Lunchboxes prepped, or at least the plan decided, so there's no standing in front of the fridge at 7:30am.

→ A quick check of the calendar so nothing surprises me - sports day, early drop off, permission slips due.

→ Kitchen benches cleared before bed, so I wake up to a clean slate.

None of this is revolutionary. But done consistently, it means mornings go from reactive to calm. (Lol I didn't believe it either at first but it really happens!)

The morning version of you will be so grateful to the evening version of you who did this.

💗 What's the one thing that, if it were done the night before, would make your mornings feel 10x better?

x Marissa

Marissa Roberts

Organising tips to make life easier for busy mothers

​www.beautifullyorganised.com​

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🏡 Why you keep organising the same spaces (and what to do instead)

Have you ever organised the same drawer three times and had it look exactly the same two weeks later?

If so, I want to share something that might be a bit of a lightbulb moment.

The reason we keep organising the same spaces isn't that we're bad at organising. It's that we're organising without first asking why it keeps getting messy.

Every space that consistently falls apart is telling you something. It's telling you that the system doesn't match how you actually live.

The junk drawer that fills up immediately? Probably because there's no designated home for those things anywhere else, so they default there.

The kids' toy area that's always a disaster? Maybe the storage is too complicated for them to actually use it themselves.

The kitchen bench that collects everything? Often it's because it's the first flat surface you hit when you walk in the door, and there's nothing else to catch what you're carrying.

Before you reorganise anything again, ask this instead:

→ WHY does this space get messy?

→ What's actually ending up here, and where does it really belong?

→ Would a different system make it easier to keep tidy?

Organise to match YOUR life - not an imaginary tidier version of it.

💗 Is there a space in your home you keep reorganising?

x Marissa

Marissa Roberts

Organising tips to make life easier for busy mothers

​www.beautifullyorganised.com

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